more virtual world stuff

So I just broke off an intense relationship in my virtual world. The guy I was  involved with was very intensely into the relationship and so I fell into it also, very deeply.  And then he started to insist that we have sex and I told him I have come to the conclusion that the next person I have sex with is going to be my husband.  And basically he didn’t want to be my husband.  Ok fine, I told him let’s just keep it on a virtual level.

But he kept trying to bring it to a physical level.  For awhile I didn’t get upset because I understand guys think of having a relationship as a prelude to sex.  But I was trying to get across the idea that a loving relationship is an end in in itself, not a means to a sexual end.  Then the last time we met in the virtual world, circumstances arose because of his sexual agender that were painful to me.  So I told him that since I couldn’t seem to bring him up anymore, and he was bringing me down, that I felt we should end it.

Of course he didn’t understand and is feeling the pain of a broken relationship, nevertheless, I will not let him back into my life because he is too strong in his low level thinging for me to bring him into a loving relationship.